The LeBron haters

People, except for fans of the Miami Heat, don’t much care for LeBron James.

We know why.

LeBron James needs to stop talking and win championships.

Mostly it’s because of the way he went about moving from Cleveland to Miami in the summer of 2010 and the inordinate amount of attention he drew to himself by making his decision in prime time on ESPN.

Then, shortly after signing with the Heat, James proclaimed that his new team would not just win one, not two, not three . . . yeah, it’s not easy to like a guy who went out of his way to make us all think he was an arrogant, spoiled athlete, just like so many others.

Before all of that, we liked LeBron. We liked what he stood for and that he was willing to stand by a franchise – the Cleveland Cavaliers – that really didn’t have much standing for it other than James.

Yet when the discussion is about most-loathed athletes, LeBron James’ name is always among the first mentioned. He sullied a reputation quickly and, apparently, permanently.

The only thing James can do to win back his former fans, I guess, is to follow through on that championship thing. He painted himself into a corner and, fairly or unfairly, there’s only one way out. James and the Heat have to win titles. Not a title – titles.

I was a LeBron hater after that ESPN debacle. His intentions, to raise awareness for Boys and Girls Clubs, was honorable but the show came off as a long pat on the back. James kept other franchises in the dark about his decision until the last second, and when he uttered the words: “I’m taking my talents to South Beach,” most of us felt an immediate disdain for everything associated with Miami, including Jackie Gleason.

James can be his own worst enemy. He sometimes says things that should never have escaped his lips. In an effort to smooth his rough edges, he usually just ends up creating more rough edges.

But I have forgiven him and moved on. I even want James and the Heat to win a championship, although I’m not sure I want Miami to win this season’s championship. I like too many of the teams still remaining – namely Boston, Oklahoma City, San Antonio and to some degree even Indiana, the Heat’s Eastern Conference semis opponent – to pull full throttle for the Heat.

I wouldn’t be disappointed if Miami won, though. In the critical Game 4 against the Pacers, I pulled for the Heat. I was happy to see James, who takes the brunt of the criticism from the national media when things don’t go well, have a humongous game with 40 points, 18 rebounds and nine assists.

There’s not really much for me to like about the Heat. I’m not a fan of Pat Riley, the general manager. I respect and like Dwyane Wade, but I’m not over the moon for him. I want James to succeed because I think he’s a good person. And like many good people, I believe he sometimes doesn’t come across that way.

I appreciate his loyalty to his hometown of Akron, Ohio, even though many in his native state still and forever will feel scorned by his “Decision.”

I think he’s a solid team guy, which used to be one of the best things you could say about an athlete. Now, though, James is frequently criticized for being too much of a team guy with a reluctance to take over games when they need to be taken over.

Some of the criticism of James is warranted, but much of it is not. He did a dumb thing two years ago by taking himself much more seriously than he should have. He should have handled his free-agent decision with more aplomb and class, but he chose to go to the biggest stage. Which, I will point out, was offered to him enthusiastically by ESPN, which was looking for big ratings and got them.

I just know that watching James play basketball is an experience like no other. There have been a handful of better players than James, and his lack of championships is a resume-killer, but there has never been a player with the combination of speed, power and skill that James possesses.

These athletes are human and sometimes they don’t think as much as they should before they act. It’s one of the things that makes them like us when so much else about them bears no resemblance whatsoever.

So you who hate LeBron and will never forgive him can go about your business hoping he doesn’t win championships. That’s your choice and to some degree it’s one I understand.

But I’m moving on and accepting the greatness of LeBron James without holding his imperfections against him.

I don’t like what he did two years ago any more than anyone else. But it was two years ago and now James is the most scrutinized athlete in the world. Perhaps even the most disliked. I think it’s unfair and I hope others start to slowly find their way back to the greatest basketball player in the world.

 

Friday musings

* What’s happened to the Wichita Thunder? This was a dominant regular-season and playoff team before meeting up with the Fort Wayne Komets in the CHL Finals, but Fort Wayne has dominated the Thunder in a way I didn’t believe the Thunder could be dominated. True, injuries to Alex Bourret and goalie Adam Russo haven’t helped, to say the least, but this is a team that has prided itself on quality depth and, more importantly, toughness all season long.

* Now the Thunder finds itself down 3-0 in the best-of-seven series with Game 4 to be played Saturday night in Fort Wayne. The last two games have been blowouts, over almost immediately. There’s nothing that feels like the Thunder will be able to eek out a win in this series, which would be a difficult way to end what had been a marvelous season.

* Playoff sweeps stink, no matter whether they come in the first round or the finals. I expected more fight from this bunch. I never thought a team coached by Kevin McClelland would be pushed around like the Thunder has been pushed around by Fort Wayne.

* This curiosity about the Thunder’s plight isn’t to short-change the way Fort Wayne has played in this series. The Komets have taken it to Wichita from the very first puck-drop for Game 1 at Intrust Bank Arena. It’s been a thorough and complete domination.

* It would be a shame if the career of New York Yankees reliever Mariano Rivera ends like this. Rivera, for those who don’t know, suffered a torn ACL in his right knew while shagging balls during the Yankees’ batting practice session before Thursday night’s game against the Kansas City Royals at Kauffman Stadium. Rivera has been shagging fly balls for years and calls it one of his most enjoyable experiences. But at 42, and with at least a year needed to recover, it’s possible that Rivera’s career is finished.

* If it is over for Rivera, his legacy as baseball’s all-time best closer is entrenched. Rivera might be the best postseason pitcher – starter or reliever – in history. He is the game’s all-time leader in appearances (1,051), bullpen ERA (2.21), saves (608) and, believe it or not, blown saves (73).

* Sorry to hear about the passing of Adam Yauch, one of the three founding members of the Beastie Boys. He died Friday at 43 after battling cancer since 2009.

* Four contestants remain on “American Idol.” I believe Joshua Ledet and Jessica Sanchez are far and away the two most talented and should be in the finale. They could be superstar singers, in my opinion. I also think Skylar Laine and Elise Testone, eliminated in back-to-back weeks, have what it takes to be stars. I’m not so sure about Phillip Phillips, who just doesn’t connect with me. And I go back and forth with the fourth remaining singer, Hollie Cavanagh. There are times I think she’ll be star and times when I doubt she’ll even get a record deal.

* The “American Idol” tour hits Kansas City’s Sprint Center on July 12. Am I going? Let me get back to you on that. There’s a chance I will. A decent chance, because my wife always really enjoys the show. Road trip, anyone?

* Tiger Woods and Albert Pujols need to become buddies.

* As I write this, it appears Woods will miss the cut at the Wells Fargo Championship in Charlotte after a second-round 73 on Friday and a two-day total of 144, even par. That is expected to be one shot short of making the cut and would be only the eighth time Woods has missed the cut for a PGA Tour event.

* Pujols, meanwhile, has now topped 100 at-bats for the season (104) and is still without a home run for the Los Angeles Angels. I have no idea how this is even possible for a guy who had homered once every 14.8 at-bats previously in his career. It’s way, way too early to think Pujols is in major trouble with this lack of power production, but it’s a fascinating start to his Angels career, to say the least. Pujols also has only five RBIs and has walked only six times in 26 games. And the more he denies the frustration, the more evident it becomes that it’s something he’s struggling with.

* It doesn’t help that the Angels are off to a 10-16 start after being expected to contend with the Texas Rangers in the American League West. Barely more than a month into the season, LA trails the Rangers by 7 1/2 games. That’s going to be nearly impossible to make up on what might be the best team in baseball.

* It also doesn’t help that Pujols has not been able to gain a comfort level in his new digs. Trust me, going homer-less in 26 games to start a season with a new team after signing a 10-year, $240 million deal is not comfortable. Baseball is a team game, of course, but you have to wonder what the rest of the Angels are thinking about Pujols. Sometimes, it’s what isn’t said that can drive a guy crazy.

* As a Cardinals fan, am I getting any satisfaction from Pujols’ early struggles in LA? Yes, I suppose I am. And I’m not proud of what that says about me. But I just can’t help it. I’m petty in some ways.

* Former Wingnuts right-hander Will Savage is 5-0 for the Triple-A Albuquerque Isotopes with a 3.34 ERA. He’s started three games and been in relief in five others. It’s always a great story when a player or pitcher who spend time in the independent leagues gets a shot at getting to the majors, and Savage could be on the cusp.

* Also good to see former Wichita State third baseman Conor Gillaspie getting an early-season promotion to the San Francisco Giants after SF third baseman Pablo Sandoval suffered an injury. Gillaspie, who was 1-for-3 in his Giants debut on Thursday, was batting .362 at Triple-A Fresno with three homers and 13 RBI. He figures to get a long look with the Giants now that Sandoval is on the shelf. Gillaspie has always been able to hit and I doubt that changes in San Francisco. Whether he’ll generate enough power to be an every-day player has always been the question for Gillaspie.

* Rumors are swirling about the possibility of Florida State and Clemson leaving the ACC for the Big 12. Those rumors are everywhere. I just did a Google search and found dozens of references, though it’s not a story that has gotten much run from major websites or publications. But it sounds like it’s something to keep your ears open about.

* You know one of the first tasks for incoming Big 12 commissioner Bob Bowlsby, formerly the athletic director at Stanford, will be to find a way to expand the conference to at least 12 teams so as to re-establish the Big 12 football championship game. Florida State and Clemson seems far-fetched. But most of the changes that have led to conference re-alignment across the country have seemed far-fetched. I’m just saying, this could happen.

Thanks for reading, everyone. And have a great early-May weekend.

 

My KSHOF ballot

One of the neatest things about my job is getting to vote on stuff.

People always ask me to vote on things and I’m a big voting guy. I want my opinion known, right or wrong. I spend hours inside the voting booth on election day, simply savoring the process. When someone asks me for their vote, I grill them for hours to make sure

I believe it's time for former Kansas State All-American Willie Murrell to be inducted into the Kansas Sports Hall of Fame.

they’re worthy.

Voting is the foundation on which our country was built.

Today, I filled out my ballot for the Kansas Sports Hall of Fame. Voting and Halls of Fame are two of my favorite things in the world, and they go together so well.

Ted Hayes, the executive director of the KSHOF, is kind enough to include me among the voters. It’s not a responsibility I take lightly.

This year, there are 10 names on the ballot. Those of us who vote were asked to list our preferences, one through 10.

It’s a strong group of 10 from whom to pick. Here is the group, in alphabetical order and with a brief bio:

Michael Bishop, Kansas State quarterback, 1997-98 — Heisman Trophy winner in 1998 and winner of Davey O’Brien Award as nation’s top quarterback. Led Wildcats to 22-3 record and 15-1 mark in the Big 12.

Larry Brown, Kansas basketball coach, 1984-88 — Led KU to two Final Fours and the 1988 national championship. Finished with a 135-44 record at KU.

Kurt Budke, Salina native — Two-time national junior college coach of the year who won four national championships at Trinity Valley (Texas) Community College. Had a career junior college winning percentage of .898. Later coached Louisiana Tech to three straight NCAA tournaments and coached at Oklahoma State for seven years. He was killed in an airplane crash late in 2011 while recruiting.

Brenda Shaffer-Dahl, Washburn — A former first-team NAIA All-American, Shaffer-Dahl is Washburn’s all-time leading scorer and rebounder with 2,613 poitns and 1,106 rebounds. A Topeka native, she played high school basketball at Shawnee Heights.

David Jaynes, Kansas football — The Bonner Springs native finished fourth in the Heisman Trophy voting in 1979, when he led the Jayhawks to a second-place finish in the Big Eight and a spot in the Liberty Bowl. He graduated as KU’s career leader in passing yards (5,132) and touchdown passes (35).

Harold Manning, WSU track and field — Wichita’s first national champion, Manning won the 1930 NCAA 2-mile run while setting the NCAA record with a time of 9:18.1. He is a native of Sedgwick and had a great track and field career after graduating from WSU.

Willie Murrell, Kansas State basketball — Murrell played just two seasons at K-State, but helped the Wildcats to Big Eight championships both season. Murrell averaged 22.3 points and 11.1 rebounds for Kansas State’s Final Four team in 1964 and averaged 20.6 points and 10.7 rebounds for his career.

Nicole Ohlde, Kansas State women’s basketball — Ohlde, from Clay Center, was a two-time Big 12 player of the year in 2003 and 2004 and a first-team All-American in 2004. She finished her Kansas State career as the school’s all-time leading scorer and rebounder with 2,241 points and 995 rebounds.

Wayne Simien, Kansas basketball — Simien, from Leavenworth, was a first-team All-American for the Jayhawks in 2005 and scored more than 1,500 points to go with 884 rebounds during his KU career. The Jayhawks were 110-28 during Simien’s four-year career.

David Snyder, tennis coach — Snyder, a native of Winfield, retired as one of the most successful tennis coaches in NCAA history in 2000. He led Texas and Arizona to 697 wins during a coaching career that lasted from 1959-2000. He was also a member of the state doubles team at Winfield in 1950 and won state singles championships in 1951 and 1952.

Bud Stallworth, Kansas basketball — Stallworth was the 1972 Big 8 player of the year. He averaged 25.3 points per game during his senior season, still the fifth-highest mark in KU history. Stallworth scored 50 points against Missouri in his final game at Allen Fieldhouse.

Brenda Stolle, Emporia State softball — Stollen was the national softball player of the year in 1981 and a two-time All-American pitcher. She led Emporia State to an AIAW national championship in 1980 and was 66-15 during her career with a 0.33 ERA.

Good list, isn’t it?

Here is my top 10:

1. Willie Murrell

2. Michael Bishop

3. Wayne Simien

4. Harold Manning

5. Larry Brown

6. Nicole Ohlde

7. David Jaynes

8. Bud Stallworth

9. Brenda Shaffer-Dahl

10. Brenda Stolle

What do you think? Where am I wrong? I’m curious as to your thoughts.

Thanks for reading.

 

Some NBA questions

It’s playoff time in the NBA, the only time when the NBA really matters to me.

I’m especially looking forward to some second-round match-ups in the Western Conference, but some of these first-round series are compelling.

Here are my Top 10 postseason questions moving forward:

Is San Antonio for real?

What a ridiculous question, on the surface. The Spurs tied Chicago for the best record in the NBA during the regular season at 50-16.

Tim Duncan and the San Antonio Spurs are my pick to win the NBA championship. But there's a long way to go.

They’re almost unbeatable at home and were the hottest team in the league going into the playoffs. But last year, SA was unceremoniously dumped in the first round by the Memphis Grizzlies after compiling the league’s best regular-season mark. It’s an older team, although the sprinkling of youth the Spurs have mixed in with Tim Duncan, Manu Ginobili and Tony Parker. This is a much deeper team than the one that lost early last season. I think San Antonio has as much a chance of winning a championship as any other team with the possible exception of Miami. And Gregg Popovich is one of the greatest coaches in NBA history. I challenge you to dispute me on that.

Is Miami this good?

 The Heat are one of those teams that can sleep-walk a bit during the regular season, making you wonder if all the great parts really add up to a championship-caliber team. But, finally, LeBron, Dwyane and (to a much lesser extent) Chris look capable of bringing a championship to South Beach. Miami has manhandled a mystified New York Knicks team so far in the first round, building a 2-0 lead. And with Derrick Rose injured in Chicago and the Boston Celtics getting older by the breath, it looks like Miami has clear sailing to the Finals. But we all know clear sailing can quickly turn turbulent. But it looks like the Heat are focused on winning a championship and that a good-but-not-great regular season is in their rear-view mirror.

Which of the underdogs could make a run?

Tough one. I suppose Philadelphia has a chance against the Rose-less Bulls, even though the 76ers are down 1-0 in that series going into tonight’s Game 2. I don’t sense a lot of upsets in the first round, though. Do you consider Atlanta to be an underdog to Boston? Seeding suggests that isn’t the case. But Atlanta’s not a team I take seriously at playoff time. The Hawks have a way of under-achieving. I would love to see Denver make a series of it with the Los Angeles Lakers. I think Dallas is an underdog in its series against Oklahoma City, although the Mavericks are the defending NBA champion and made Games 1 and 2 difficult for the Thunder in OKC.

What is Amar’e Stoudamire thinking?

Clearly, he’s not. I don’t give the Knicks much of a chance to come back in their East series with Miami. But thanks to Stoudamire’s bone-headed decision to punch a glass case that housed a fire extinguisher after a Game 2 loss on Monday night, any chance the Knicks have has been, well, extinguished. Way to think of your team, Amar’e.

Did the LA Clippers really come back from 27 points down to beat Memphis?

Yes, that really happened. I didn’t see it with my own eyes, because when I saw the Grizzlies leading by 20-plus points in the fourth quarter, I went to bed. This looked like the most entertaining of all the first-round match-ups going in and Game 1 certainly didn’t disappoint. I think this will go seven games. I think it’ll be a lot of fun. It’s great that the Clippers and Grizzlies are playing one another. I love this series.

Does Boston have one more run?

Down 1-0 to Atlanta and without spark plug point guard Rajon Rondo in Game 2, the easy answer is “no.” And that’s also probably the right answer. I think the Celtics have finally hit the wall, even though the Hawks or another team will have to stab this proud, veteran team in the heart to get them to die. Any team with Paul Pierce, Kevin Garnett, Ray Allen and Rondo – as long as he’s not bumping officials – is going to be difficult to beat.

Why, Bob, don’t you like the LA Lakers?

I kind of grapple with this one. I guess it goes back to the great Lakers-Celtics rivalry of the 1980s when Larry Bird, my guy, battled Magic Johnson, their guy. I’ve grown to love Magic, but at the time I was against everything the Lakers stood for. I suppose I haven’t been able to let that go. And let’s be real here, it’s not easy to love a team that Andrew Bynum plays for. The guy’s a child, in my opinion. A very big child who can really rebound. I do respect Kobe Bryant and consider him one of the top 10 players of all-time. But I don’t care for Pau Gasol and I think Meta World Peace is a joke.

Is there a real dark horse to win it all?

Does Indiana count? Can a 3-seed in the East be a dark horse? I think so and since this is my blog, I’m making the rules. I was shocked that the Pacers lost Game 1 at home to a Dwight Howard-less Orlando Magic team. And the Pacers struggled some with Orlando in Game 2 before taking charge. I’m guessing most people, even NBA fans, can’t name more than two or three players on the Pacers. But it’s a team I kind of like, again probably more for the association with Larry Bird, the general manager, than anything else. I do think Danny Granger, David West, Roy Hibbert and Paul George – that’s four players, somebody stop me – are a nice foundation. And the Pacers have a bunch of other guys who can contribute. I think Indiana might be heard from.

Who do you like in the Finals?

Oklahoma City is a sexy pick in the West, but I don’t think the Thunder is there yet. OKC isn’t good enough in the half-court to win a title, I don’t believe. I think the Spurs and Lakers will meet in the Western Conference finals, with San Antonio winning in seven games. In the East, it looks like a Miami walk in the park. Can any other team in the East get in the Heat’s way? Chicago can’t, not without its best player. Boston can’t. Indiana? Atlanta? Oh, who am I kidding. It’s a Miami-San Antonio Finals.

OK, then, so who wins?

Gotta be the Heat, right? Not necessarily. I think San Antonio matches up well with Miami, although I’m not sure the Spurs have an answer for James and Wade. But who does? This would be a fantastic series, one that I could easily see going seven games. Since San Antonio would have the home-court advantage, how can I pick against the Spurs? Yet I’m hesitating. I’m doubting. I’m thinking too much, to the point of making myself queasy. Can I really pick San Antonio? Sure, why not? Spurs in seven.

Thanks for reading.

 

Friday musings

* Went to the Tom Petty and the Heartbreakers show last night. What a concert. Petty was so gracious and so complimentary of the Intrust Bank Arena crowd. In all honesty, I have nothing against country music. I’m not a big follower, but I think it has its place. I just don’t want its place to be so pervasive in Wichita’s music scene. I’m a fan of diversity and especially of rock and roll. More rock and roll shows, please.

* The highlights of the Petty show for me were: “You Wreck Me” and “Mary Jane’s Last Dance,” my two favorite Petty songs; Mike Campbell’s guitar work, especially on “It’s Good to Be King”; the keyboard work of Benmont Tench, who just happens to have one of the best names in the history of names; the lighting of the stage, which was fantastic; Petty’s vocals, which were spot on all night long; Scott Thurston’s work as guitar player, harmonica player and back-up singer. Thurston stood behind keyboards all night but, as far as I could tell, never played them; Regina Spektor as the warm-up act. She was really good; my wife, Debbie, dancing in her own special way during many of Petty’s songs; the silly people who lit up joints during the show, surely knowing they were going to get caught; Petty’s facial hair, which does him well.

* The Washington Nationals, already the biggest surprise team in baseball, are calling up 19-year-old outfielder Bryce Harper this weekend. Harper is the most intriguing talent to come to the majors since Stephen Strasburg came to the Nationals in 2010. Suddenly, Washington is one of the most must-see teams in the bigs. I’m just glad the St. Louis Cardinals don’t play them until September.

* As I write this, it’s less than an hour before ESPN’s coverage of the second and third rounds of the NFL draft. I’m excited because the St. Louis Rams have three picks in the second round and the first pick of the third round. I eat this draft stuff up. I can’t wait. My hands are trembling.

* Great news for Carl Hall and Wichita State that Hall has been granted another year of hardship eligibility by the NCAA to return for his senior season of basketball. Losing Hall would have been a real blow, given the level of inexperience on the Shockers’ front line for next season. Hall is a big key. You don’t get these statements of the obvious anywhere else.

* Here’s where I give some “American Idol” thoughts. If you don’t want my “AI” thoughts, then you can skip ahead to the next bullet point. But I’m a singing contest guy and I don’t apologize for that. I think this is one of the best groups of singers there has been on this show ever. I predict big things for Elise Testone, even though she was eliminated last night; Joshua Ledet; Jessica Sanchez and Skylar Laine. I also think Phillip Phillips has a chance, although I’m not as high on him as many are. I think recently-eliminated Colton Dixon might be a bigger star than Rivers. What about my wife’s favorite, Hollie Cavanagh. I’m not sure. I love her voice but she has to learn to perform. She’s 50-50 for me.

* Welcome back, those of you who wanted nothing of my “American Idol” thoughts. I am looking forward to the NBA Playoffs, which start Saturday. I think there are some potentially fascinating match-ups, the best of which might by the LA Clippers vs. the Memphis Grizzlies in the West. I’m all over that one. I also like the Denver-LA Lakers series and while I expect Oklahoma City to beat Dallas, the Mavericks won’t be an easy out as they try and defend their NBA championship.

* In the East, the most intriguing series is New York against Miami, a 7-seed against a 2-seed. The Knicks have had an amazing season, both good and bad. But they’ve been going good under Mike Woodson, who since taking over as coach as led New York to a 17-6 record. I think New York can push Miami deep into this series.

* The Charlotte Bobcats finished the season 7-59. It’s the worst winning percentage in NBA history. Michael Jordan isn’t exactly working out as an owner, is he?

* I’m just glancing at the sports section and I see that Heath Myers, a person I do not know, had a hole-in-one on the No. 9 hole at Cedar Pines in Andover. The thing that makes this interesting is that the hole is 290 yards in distance. Now that’s a hole-in-one.

* Loving the new season at “Mad Men.” The revelation has been the work of Jessica Pare as Don Draper’s young wife. I wondered how that relationship would be portrayed and so far it’s been great. Pare, who plays the role of Megan Draper, is her husband’s match in every way. Pare deserves an Emmy nomination. I like writing things like that because it makes me feel important, as if I know anything at all about who deserves an Emmy nomination. But in this case, I really think she does.

* If minor-league professional teams like the Wichita Wild of the Indoor Football League want to attract an audience, they have to win in this market. No ifs, ands or buts. And a 2-5 record isn’t going to get it done.

* Pretty happy with the St. Louis Cardinals so far. It’s going to be nice to get Lance Berkman back in the lineup in a week and for center fielder John Jay to return. But you can’t argue with 12-7, even though those two walk-off losses to the Chicago Cubs last week made my head hurt.

Thanks for reading, everyone. Have a wonderful weekend.

 

My life on Facebook

People don’t believe me when I tell them I enjoy Facebook. People don’t believe me when I tell them a lot of things, but that’s another story.

Truth is, I like Facebook a lot. Many of my stodgy friends, who are about the same age, don’t relate at all to Facebook. Their belief is that we’re too old and too set in our ways to adapt to something on the cutting edge. I try to tell them we’re not that old, but they just look at me. At least I think they’re looking at me. They’re so old I can’t really tell.

Anyway, I spend a good amount of time on Facebook. Why?

Good question. I could say it’s because I like to keep up with my family, but I only have the one wife and the one kid. Good thing on the one wife thing, by the way.

My wife, though, has a large family and I do follow them as much as I can on Facebook.

I like the spontaneity of Facebook. Being that I’m one who is long past the point of caring what people think, for the most part, I enjoy posting what I deem to be slightly humorous stuff and then reading the responses from my Facebook “friends.” That entertains me.

What are Facebook “friends,” by the way?

Again, good question.

Most of the people who are my Facebook “friends,” are people I’ve never met. Yet I am interested in them. Some of them, at least. Sorry, but not everyone who is my “friend” on Facebook interests me that much. And I’m sure I don’t interest many of my “friends,” that much, either.

So in that regard, Facebook is a peculiar place. When I read a post from someone I don’t know who says they’re going to have a knee replaced, I wonder if that’s really information that I need. It’s not, yet it’s something I learn from reading Facebook posts. But reading posts like that creates a dilemma: Should I “like” that status, should I respond to that status or should I simply ignore that status?

Most times I ignore, being that I have very little to add to the statement of the conversation the statement elicits. But sometimes, out of the blue, I respond to a complete and total stranger. There are some people on Facebook, people I wouldn’t know if they tapped me on the shoulder, with whom I establish a mild connection.

I worry, though, that I’m ignoring my real friends for my Internet friends. Real friends offer more, such as: Real conversation, facial expressions, high fives, a twinkle in the eyes, laughter, groaning, anger, resentment and all of the wonderful things that come with true friendship.

What do you get on Facebook? A few words here and there, most of which don’t amount to anything of meaning.

Yet I’m hooked. When I was in Branson, Mo., last week, it was difficult for me not to use my phone to get on Facebook. For three days, I did my very best. And I’m proud to say that I only reached out to my Facebook “friends” one time. And the sun always came up the next morning.

Another bothersome thing about Facebook is that many of my friends aren’t even people. They’re business, disguised as people. Yet I accept their friend requests because – this is shameful to admit – I want to have as many friends as Anita Cochran and Larry Hatteberg.

I never see Hatteberg posting much of anything on Facebook, yet the guy has a zillion friends. And I’m jealous. So when Mike’s Bail Bonds sends me a “friend” request, I jump on it like I haven’t seen Mike or sought bail bond money for decades.

Meanwhile, there are some people on Facebook who I have known for many, many years. And some with whom I have rekindled a long-ago friendship. Those are the biggest attributes of Facebook, I believe. Because of Facebook, nobody should have to wonder about “whatever happened to . . . ” again.

All in all, Facebook has improved my life. It’s probably much too pervasive, but that’s my problem. I could just turn the computer off. But when I do, I wonder what I’m missing. And when that happens, I usually find out that I’m not missing anything. But the notion that I think I might be missing out draws me back.

I hope your Facebook adventures are satisfying. Or perhaps you’re as mystified by this social media craze as I am. I’m all in, don’t get me wrong. I’m just not always sure why.

 

Slow start in Kansas City

I apologize for the lengthy absence. When basketball season ends, I wind down. Feeling sufficiently wound down, I’m ready for a lively couple of weeks here on the blog, after which I’ll be taking some vacation.

Kansas City left fielder Alex Gordon had a breakthrough season in 2011, but has started the 2012 slowly with a .190 batting average.

Yes, for me it’s hit and miss during the less-busy months of the year.

Today, I want to reach out to the fans of the Boston Red Sox, Minnesota Twins, Seattle Mariners, Los Angeles Angels, Houston Astros, Chicago Cubs, San Diego Padres and, finally, Kansas City Royals.

Those eight teams are a combined 40-87 and, collectively, 42 1/2 games out of first place.

There’s nothing quite as aggravating as a slow start to the MLB season, especially when there was initially some promise. Royals fans, I’m talking to you here.

More specifically, I’m talking to the Royals’ public relations staff, which hailed this season as “Our Time,” before it even started.

Well, “Our Time” is riding a 10-game losing streak and hasn’t won at home in nine tries going into tonight’s finale of a four-game series against Toronto. The Royals, at 3-12, have the worst record in baseball. We’ve been down this road before.

Fortunately for Kansas City, no team in the American League Central has lapped the field to start the season, so they’re only – “only” – 6 1/2 games behind first-place Detroit. That doesn’t sound so bad except when you consider we’re only 15 or 16 games into the season.

Fast starts have been few and far between for the Royals in the past decade-plus. Makes sense, because Kansas City has been mostly awful during that stretch and years before.

I was interested today to read that Kansas City has had at least one losing streak of six games or more before May 15 in each of the past nine seasons. Think about that for a moment. It’s an incredible number and it got me to looking at the best and worst starts for the Royals going back to 2000.

Finding good starts is difficult. In fact, there has been only one that stood out, a 24-15 record in 2004 when Kansas City found itself in first place by 3 1/2 games on May 15. The Royals finished 83-79 that season, only five games behind the Central Division-winning Minnesota Twins. By KC standards, it was a championship season.

Otherwise, only two other Royals teams since 2000 have been above .500: the 2011 team was 20-19 while the 2009 team was 19-17. Only one other time has a Kansas City team been in first place on May 15 during that span; the 2009 team was tied for the division lead.

Otherwise, May 15 has offered little hope to the Royals, who since 2000 are 189-276 in pre-May 15 games and have been at least five games out of first place in nine of those 13 years. From 2004 through 2007, Kansas City was 10 1/2, 16, 13 1/2 and 12 games out of first place on May 15, with two weeks of school still remaining in most places.

Bad starts defuse a fan base and you can already feel it happening with the Royals. It’s bad enough to lose 10 games in a row at any time during a season. But when you lose the first nine home games on your schedule, even the strongest fan starts to disassociate.

The Royals have disappointed in every facet so far. Outside of a few guys, nobody is off to a good start. Starting pitchers aren’t logging as many innings as they should, so the bullpen is being worn down early. And after tonight, Kansas City plays 14 of its next 21 games on the road, with the only home games coming against the Yankees and Red Sox. OK, so maybe the Red Sox aren’t so scary, but you can see where the Royals are headed here.

Sure, there is time for a good team to turn things around. You would expect the Red Sox and Angels to eventually figure things out. Same goes for the 7-9 Philadelphia Phillies in the National League. Those are good teams (we think) that are scuffling early on, and every team goes through scuffles during the course of a long season.

With the Royals, though, it’s more than a scuffle. It’s a trend, alarming because of the lack of success inside Kauffman Stadium. Some slow starts can be reversed but when it comes to the Royals, I have my doubts.

 

 

Does KU have a chance?

The answer to the question posted in this blog headline is a resounding “no.” With another four-letter word in front of it, referring to a place none of us ever want to be.

As I was getting in the elevator at the hotel today to come over to the Superdome, ESPN analyst Fran

Any team that has Thomas Robinson - and Kansas has him - has a chance to win. At least that's what I think.

Franschilla was riding, too. Fran and I are close and I, as you can tell, love to drop names.

Anyway, I’m one – one of the few – who believes Kansas has a chance in tonight’s national championship game against Kentucky. So I asked Franschilla if he was with me.

And he wasn’t. He obviously thinks this is Kentucky’s game and he’s not alone. Not only are most of the “experts” picking the Wildcats, but they’re picking them by a lot. And some are saying a KU win would be epic, like North Carolina State’s victory over the Phi Slamma Jamma Houston team in 1983 or Villanova’s upset of Georgetown two years later.

What?

I’m obviously missing something here, and it’s not respect for Kentucky. I do regard the Wildcats as a big-time team with unbelievable talent. I know six Kentucky players will be involved in the NBA draft in a couple of months and that a couple of them could be lottery picks.

Center Anthony Davis is listed at 6-foot-10 but there has to be a typo. I’m almost sure he’s 7-10. Davis is a game changer.

But Kansas isn’t coming into this game with chopped liver. Or liver and onions, that I know of.

KU is good. And it’s a veteran team with a central piece, 6-10 junior Thomas Robinson, who is as focused as any player in the tournament.

Robinson and guards Tyshawn Taylor and Elijah Johnson could actually win their one-on-one matchups against Kentucky’s Terrence Jones, Marquis Teague and Doron Lamb. It’s not out of the realm.

But how will KU 7-footer Jeff Withey hold up against Davis? Three months ago, I would have said Davis would steamroll Withey into surrender. Now I think the KU junior might be able to hold his own. That’s not saying Withey wins the match-up or that Withey is a better player than Davis. He’s not. But he’s capable of at least competing with Davis, isn’t he?

The other problematic match-up for Kansas is Travis Releford vs. Kentucky’s Michael Kidd-Gilchrist. But am I completely loony in believing Releford is physical enough and smart enough to create some doubt in Kidd-Gilchrist, who is just a freshman after all. And Releford played better in his semifinal game against Ohio State than Gilchrist did in his against Louisville, when he had nine points and four rebounds.

Kentucky has a big edge off the bench with senior Darius Miller. Wait, Kentucky has a senior? Yes, and Miller is a good one who is capable of being the Wildcats’ best player in a given game.

But try as I might, I cannot see the huge Kentucky advantage in this game that everybody else – many of whose opinions I value – are seeing.

I know Kansas has struggled mightily to score in the NCAA Tournament; the Jayhawks just aren’t shooting well. And Kentucky doesn’t play defense like a bunch of freshmen and sophomores with one foot out the door for the NBA. The Wildcats are a fantastic defensive team with one of the best shot blockers in college basketball history in Davis.

But KU’s defense is special, too. And the Jayhawks are playing like a charmed team, able to overcome even themselves to win games.

Do I think Kansas can beat Kentucky? Yes I do. Do I think the Jayhawks will?

I could be really bold and pick KU. But I don’t think I can do that, even though I’m tempted. I will pick this to be a close game. And an epic game. It will be in doubt from start to finish before Kentucky eeks out a 70-68 win.

That’s my prediction and I’m sticking to it. Have fun watching the game everyone.

 

Bruce Weber to Kansas State

Well, he’s sure a lot different than Frank Martin.

And if that’s what Kansas State athletic director John Currie was going for in picking former Illinois

Bruce Weber will be trading in this orange coat jacket for a purple one as he is scheduled to be named Kansas State's new men's basketball coach today.

coach Bruce Weber to replace Martin as the Wildcats’ men’s basketball coach, then he knocked this one out of the park. K-State is holding a 3 p.m. news conference today to announce the hiring.

Otherwise, this hire strikes me as a weak grounder to second base.

First and foremost, why the rush? And why is K-State announcing the Weber hire on the day of the national semifinals in the NCAA Tournament? Talk about being relegated to the back page.

Just four days after Martin accepted the South Carolina job, Currie pulls Weber out of his hat? It’s hard to fathom. Reportedly, the College of Charleston was trying to lure Weber. Southern Illinois, where Weber coached for five years before going to Illinois in 2003, had some interest in bringing Weber back, but nothing materialized.

Remember, Weber lost his team this season at Illinois. The Illini looked like an NCAA Tournament lock early, then went 2-12 to end the season. Weber was canned and Illinois is still looking for his replacement.

Weber is a good guy. He won’t scowl at his players or cause little old ladies at Bramlage Coliseum to pray to the heavens, the way Martin did. He fits the mold for the coach many of us expected Currie to hire. I just didn’t expect it to be Weber, who outside of his first three seasons Illinois – during which he coached a lot of Bill Self’s former players – didn’t do a whole lot.

In those first three seasons, Weber led Illinois to an 89-16 record and was 39-9 in the Big Ten. The Illini reached the national championship game in 2005 and won eight NCAA Tournament games overall.

But in the past six seasons, Weber and Illinois were 121-85 overall, 50-56 in the Big Ten and captured just one NCAA Tournament victory.

It’s fair to say that after the Self influence departed the Illinois program, Weber was unable to do a whole lot. And now he’s the guy Kansas State expects to stand toe to toe with Self and his Kansas program in the Big 12?

Yeah, good luck with that.

I can’t fathom why Currie was so quick to pull the trigger here. How much did he shop the Kansas State job around? It’s a great job and surely could have attracted a nice list of top candidates. In talking to reporters here at the Final Four in New Orleans over the past couple of days, I had become a big believer in Kentucky assistant Orlando Antigua, one of the country’s top recruiters and brightest up-and-comers.

Antigua, I can assure you, was never contacted by Currie and Kansas State. Outside of Weber, who was? There wasn’t time to contact many coaches. It will be interesting to hear Currie explain the process that was used to determine Weber was the best fit for the K-State job.

Weber, 55, did spend 19 years as an assistant to Larned native Gene Keady, first at Western Kentucky for one season and at Purdue for the next 18. Keady played at Kansas State from 1954-58 and is currently working on Steve Lavin’s staff at St. John’s.

Did Keady push hard for Weber? I guess we’ll find out today.

But even if he did, didn’t Currie owe it to Kansas State fans, the athletic department and the basketball program to turn over more stones before picking a coach?

There was a lot of furor Friday over the possibility of ESPN basketball commentator and former Oklahoma State player Doug Gottlieb perhaps emerging as a candidate at Kansas State. That was a ridiculous notion, but at least it got some Wildcats fans excited.

I don’t imagine the hiring of Weber is having the same effect.

This is a decision that, in the long term, will help define Currie’s reputation. Who knows, perhaps it will turn out to be a brilliant hire.

In the short term, though, it looks like an over-eager athletic director has stepped out onto a shaky limb.

 

 

The Gottlieb factor

Doug Gottlieb is a terrific college basketball analyst for ESPN. He’s interesting and occasionally polarizing and I enjoy listening to him. There is no question he knows the game.

ESPN's Doug Gottlieb does well behind the microphone. How would he do on the bench as a basketball coach? I have my doubts.

But is he a sensible candidate to be the next basketball coach at Kansas State?

Gottlieb has thrown his name into the ring as the potential replacement for Frank Martin. This, despite the fact he has no coaching experience.

Gottlieb was a gritty, tough, fundamentally-sound player at Oklahoma State for Eddie Sutton about 15 years ago. There’s probably a coach in there somewhere, waiting to get out.

But for that coach to get out at K-State, which plays at the highest level of college basketball, is crazy talk. There is no way the Wildcats should entertain the notion of hiring someone who has never coached.

Some K-Staters are enthusiastic about the potential of Gottlieb landing in Manhattan. Why? I’m not sure. Apparently it’s because they believe Gottlieb’s basketball knowledge and the fact his father once coached under Jack Hartman at K-State, although it was 40 years ago.

This is where the insecurities of some Kansas State fans are apparent. Those who think Gottlieb would be a viable coach might be right, but is it worth the risk? And trust me, I’m a believer in risk/reward. I just need the risk to make sense.

Imagine the fallout if K-State athletic director John Currie hired Gottlieb and it didn’t work out. Currie would be gone in a flash because he wouldn’t be able to defend the hire. I’m not saying Currie needs to be absolutely safe when hiring the next K-State coach. In fact, I think he needs to push the envelope some.

But not to the edge of the earth, which would be the case with Gottlieb.